My Opinion If a man flirts with you knowing you have a boyfriend, he doesn't think you're a great woman.He thinks you're easy and not loyal. If he knows you're taken and still slides,it's n compliment. It's an insult with cologne on it. He looked at you, looked at your man, and decided: "She's not that loyal. He's not that much of a threat. I can take this." And if you smile? If you laugh?